I'm about to share with you the biggest mistake most men make when it comes to meeting women.
Are you ready for it?
Because here it is...
The biggest mistake most men make when going out to meet women, is that they only try and meet YOUNGER women.
Now, that's not a bad thing, mind you. But there's a whole category of women who can be just as beautiful, just as interesting, and just as fun. And that is older women.
Whether the girl is just a little bit older than you, or ten years older, it doesn't matter. Older women tend to have a lot more experience with life, love, and most of all - other men! They've usually learned what it takes to make their man happy, so a relationship with an older woman can be extremely rewarding.
Unfortunately, most men ignore women who are older than they are, and miss out on a fantastic opportunity to meet tons and tons of available, ready, and willing partners!
So it all comes down to this:
Are you interested in dating a woman who's older than you are?
Do you find older women more attractive than their younger counterparts?
Well, my friend, you are not alone!
Older women are much more "mature" and experienced in the ways of love. They've usually had a lot of practice dealing with men, and know their way around the bedroom.
They can also be MUCH easier to deal with than younger women, who can tend to be a little "high maintenance."
If you're a man in your mid-to-late 20s who's mostly been with women in their late teens and early 20s, dating a woman in her 40s can be a real treat for you!
They tend to be more mature and less selfish – sexually, and in just about every other way – than the women you're used to dating. And if you're not looking for anything serious, the chances are higher that they're not either, if they're just past child-bearing age.
In that way, they're kind of like a lot of women in their mid-20s and younger, who don't feel compelled to start a family in the way that single women who've hit 28 or 29 do. By the time a single woman reaches that age range, she's more likely to feel that now's the time to act if she's ever going to have children.
That's because she's not getting any younger, and she feels less attractive than she was when she was in her early 20s. In her mind, it's only going to get harder to find a great man she can settle down with.
(By the way, a lot of women at this stage make a mistake that a lot of men make their entire lives: they get desperate. Some women actually repel men because of their desire to get into a serious relationship sooner than the man is comfortable with. And a lot of women at this stage will settle for a man who they're not compatible with, but who will end up fulfilling their need to have a family.)
So how can you start meeting older women?
You’re not so likely to find them at trendy nightclubs, but you can find them just about everywhere else you can find attractive women: while you’re out shopping, at coffee houses, local bars, or in bookstores. You can also meet them through school, volunteer activities or through friends.
But bar none, the BEST place to meet older women is online dating sites.
Sites like Match.com and E-Harmony have a bevy of older women just looking for some guy to come along and sweep them off their feet.
Some of them have kids, most of them are divorced, but one thing they all have in common is that they're probably looking to have a good time!
Also, more and more over 30 women are heading towards social networking sites like MySpace as a way to meet new people. Just by doing a quick search for your target age range in your local area on MySpace will yield a number of potential older women you can meet.
But there are problems with dating older women. You may not be as mature as she is, which can be a problem for both of you. And the age difference can become rather awkward should you decide to get married: If there's a 15-year age difference between you, then she'll be 50 when you're 35!
But that's not to say that you shouldn't meet and date an older woman. It can be a great experience for you, if you're aware of the potential issues that can arise in the relationship.
Joseph Matthews is the author of the internet's #1 resource on how to meet women - the Art of Approaching. You can sign up for his free Meet Women Crash Course by visiting his website www.artofapproaching.com. If you would like to read an alternate version of this article on Meeting Older Women you can do so here.
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