Firstly guys we have to face the facts of who we are as human beings. By understanding our own fears we can understand the fears of others. None of us like the idea of rejection either male or female. We do not like this because we lose control when someone rejects us. We become the under dog.
We would almost prefer not to face this so that we could keep thinking that we have the upper hand. This however is a fallacy. So we see that we are faced with the challenges of our own ego. We do not want our ego to be hurt.
So what has this got to do with chatting up girls? Very simply this, leave her in control. Do not ask personal questions. Take advantage of your surrounding for opening wedges of conversation. See some thing silly happen, go up to her and say "did you see that, what is all that about". Inject some humor into it.
Then keep looking away do not focus 100% on her as that can be creepy. If for example you see a bunch of people wearing white shirts ask her "Are we at a white shirt convention or what?" bring in some humor to take the heat off. I think you get the idea.
This way you do not invade in her personal space. Then you look to see how she reacts. If she looks back at you and softly smiles you now have an opening to continue the conversation. If she shuts you down by saying I don't know then turns away you are getting the cold shoulder.
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