When it comes to women and dating, there's a huge mistake that most guys making all the time. Do you want to know the huge mistake that most guys do? Here it is.
Guys often make mistake of "selling" too far in advance instead of just getting to the next step. Do you understand what I mean? I bet you don't. Read on. Let me give you an example to make it clear. Let's say that a guy is talking to a woman at a coffee shop. Maybe she's sitting at the next table over and they strike up a conversation about the weather.
Further, let's say that the woman is unusually attractive and the man is unusually average in his approach and method of communicating that he's interested. This guy might say something like:
"So, let me guess, you have a boyfriend, right?" or "Ok, I have to tell you, I find you really attractive and I'd like to take you out sometime." I'm sure you've seen this kind of thing a thousand times in your life. But what's going on here? Is the guy actually asking a casual question?
NO!The guy is literally communicating that he'd like to pursue a relationship with the woman and even worse, he's doing it within a few minutes of meeting her!
Explained differently, the guy is trying to sell the woman on a relationship in the future based on five minutes of conversation. And what happens?
Of course, the woman puts up the resistance instantly. It's all kinds of wrong in all kinds of ways. It's "wussy" behavior in its purest form. It's one of the biggest mistakes men make, period. And of course this is only the tip of the iceberg. So what's the solution? The solution is to know all the steps from the first meeting all the way to the bedroom (and beyond), and only work on getting to the next step in each situation.
Here is what I mean by "only work on getting to the next step in each situation". For example, if you're talking to a girl, just get her email. If you're talking on the phone, just arrange a meeting for a cup of tea. If you're kissing, just go back to your place to be alone. Never again try to sell past the very next step.
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