How To Be Attractive To Women - Overcoming The Negatives

It has to be said. When it comes to us manly men attracting women it is often beliefs we have formed from our early years that formulate our actions in the present day. The interesting fact is how much these beliefs play apart of our daily lives. These beliefs have been formed by experience. In the event you had good experiences then you may have a more rosy outlook - if you had bad experiences you may call women all sorts of names.


My question is this, why should this be the case? Why should yesterday impose upon today? I know I need knowledge to do things such as drive a car or use a computer, but beyond that why should me running into a person who is having a bad day shape my thoughts for the rest of my life?


You will notice that a lot of our trouble is related to the ego. We have tender egos. We protect it at all costs. That is why experience becomes even more powerful. The more I experience the more I protect, then the more fear I have.


This as you will see creates a wall and from there now and again we look over the top to see what is going on. Now and again we may even come out from behind the wall but as soon as we see anything that may threaten our ego we go right back behind it.


So we get caught in our own trap. This wall gets thicker and thicker as we get older. When you are younger you have less fear but as you get older you do less and have something to say about everything.


When you start to realize this and see what is going on without judging it you begin to question what is the big deal with the Ego. The Ego does nothing but limit you in life. If you want to be attractive to women forget your ego and be a real human being. So what if someone does not like you or you make a mistake. Be like the kid who falls of the bike, just smile and get back on the saddle with even more zest for life.


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