Why do most guys still fail to attract women in spite of all the dating tips and advices they get through their "extensive" research? Here it is guys and feast on it. I hope you are not making the same mistakes these kind of guys are making. These are the basic ones and if you have not risen up from this level, then you still have a long way to go.
Reason # 1: Guys Who Are Too Smart For Their Own Good
A lot of really smart guys (I did not say all) think that they are really intelligent. They "know" that they are really very smart and that they are always right. They believe that they do not need any help and they can do it by themselves. They will not budge and cannot let go of the thought that someone actually is better than him about any subject matter and he is just too attached to that thought. "You cannot fix something that is not broken".
Reason # 2: Guys Who Always Want A Quick-Fix
These kind of guys want something that will work out fast and fast for them is instant. All the techniques and dating guides out there are not 100% full proof strategies. That is why you always have to learn to modify it based on your own experiences. Find out what is best that will work for you and just keep on trying and trying until you find one that will do.
Reason # 3: Guys Who Do Not Want To Fail
As I have said, there is no full proof strategy so you just have to accept that there are times that you will just fail even if you have done everything by the book. You will never get through unless you give yourself permission to fall flat out on your face and fail. Do you have anything else to lose? Just do it and let go! You'll never know what you have really lost until you have gained it so just try to fail better.
Reason # 4: Guys Do Not Want To Be In The Spotlight
It is hard for men to focus the spotlight on themselves and find out what is really wrong with them. They do not want to face their insecurities so they never learn to overcome it. Generally, men find self-exploration a tough thing to do and they cannot accept that they do have a problem.
Reason # 5: It Is Just-Not-Gonna-Work-For-Me Guy
If you are in this category, you are in the worst scenario. Stop making negative self fulfilling prophecies about yourself. If you are doing a technique, believe in it and do not tell yourself that there is no way that this is going to work out. From the moment you thought about that, then you have already failed.
Guys, please remember that you can never gain anything if you are not willing to commit to do something. You have to take action. Every failure gets you closer to success. You know what a successful guy looks like. You know what he does, do it. Eventually, you will get there yourself. Believe that.
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